We never know the part we’ll play in another person’s life, nor how our course might be altered because of a life-changing event. In this chapter of my story, the person I’m talking about is my collaborator Oakley Boycott and the event is the pandemic of 2020.
We met nearly 20 years ago when I first moved to Wyoming from Iowa and took a side gig to my reporting job of being costumer for the local community college. I had no idea the young teenager I’d hired as my assistant was in any need of a rescue as she describes in her story, as follows. I just knew we had a lot of fun “playing” in my costume shop.
A couple years later, I was working for her, technically, creating costumes for her Dulcinea in the college’s “Man of La Mancha.” From there, we kept in touch through the years as she set out for New York to become an actress and model. We supported each other in new endeavors, leaned on each other in times of need and ran off to thrift stores whenever we had the chance.
So, it really comes as no surprise that she would be the one to rescue me from a depression brought on by the sudden death of my son. He died unexpectedly in April of 2020, of natural causes at the age of 40. I kept telling myself I’d survive, but had trouble getting off my couch. That’s when Oakley swooped in, yes, she swoops, and convinced me I could finish my historical clothing exhibit and launch my online store because she’d be here to help. COVID had the actress/model hunkered down in her childhood home nearby instead of basing out of New York.
Coming together at this time to complete this project truly does fulfill a need, a passion and a dream; a dream of owning my own store, a passion for preserving history and the need for a rescue from the depths of despair. Now, here we are, once again, “playing” in my costume shop, creating colorful characters, shooting beautiful photos, filming fun videos and running off to thrift stores whenever we can. What’s different now, though, is that we’re set on a mission of turning my static exhibit into a virtual tour and showing our followers how to create their own unique style out of classic, vintage clothing.
Like I said in the beginning of my story, we just never know what parts we’re meant to play in the story of our lives or who might pass through to help us along the way. In this chapter, it’s Oakley, and for that I am forever grateful.
Leslie Drollinger Stratmoen
Owner of “Flappers to Fringe Vintage”